The short version
Five realistic dilemmas that test whether your values are usable decision rules when priorities collide — customers, deadlines, promotions, cost cuts, and bad news.
Values are easy to affirm and hard to use. The test isn't what people say the values are — it's whether the values help anyone make a decision when two good things collide. This exercise, run in 45 minutes with any leadership team, finds out.
How to run it
Present each scenario. Each person writes their answer first — independently, before discussion, or the loudest voice becomes the answer. Then compare. The value of the exercise is the divergence: if five leaders give five different answers, the values aren't decision rules yet, whatever they say on the wall.
The five scenarios
- 1The customer who pays. Your largest customer asks for a change that would quietly disadvantage your smaller customers. The revenue matters. One of your stated values is fairness or customer trust. What do you do — and what would the person two levels below you expect you to do?
- 2The deadline. Launch is Friday. A tester found an issue that affects roughly 5% of users, not fatally, but visibly. Your values include quality and honesty. Ship or slip — and critically: what would make this a 'values question' rather than a judgment call? If your values don't change the answer at the margin, they're not doing work.
- 3The promotion. Two candidates for one role. One is objectively stronger at the numbers. The other modeled a core value publicly, twice, at real personal cost. The team is watching this promotion closely. What do you decide, and how do you explain it?
- 4The cost cut. You must reduce budget 10%. One option hits a program nobody senior uses but that frontline teams rely on. Another spreads the pain evenly and weakens everything a little. If you have a value like stewardship, care, or people-first, which choice does it actually rule in or out?
- 5The bad news. You've known about a serious problem for two weeks. Sharing it now disrupts a quarter that's going well. One value is transparency or candor. What exactly triggers disclosure — and who decided that trigger?
What the results mean
- High agreement, values-consistent: rare and worth celebrating. Your values function as decision rules.
- High agreement, values-inconsistent: the real values. Consider updating the stated list — honesty about what you reward beats aspirational language.
- Low agreement: the common case. Each dilemma is now a working session for writing decision rules: 'When X, we do Y.' That sentence, not the value word, is what culture actually transmits.
The output to keep: for each scenario, one sentence of the form 'When X and Y collide, we choose Z because [value].' Collect them. They're the first page of a decision playbook no poster could replace.
Related resource
Core Values Worksheet
Turn abstract values into observable behaviors, decision rules, and clear we-do / we-don't commitments.
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